[CALUG] any body out there very familiar with Cygwin/X ?

[Wendel Dean Renner]

I have
startxwin.exe  ./my_cygwin_program
that works,
but when I exit the program, XWin.exe is still running, and I have to do a
control-alt-delete to bring up the Windows Task Manager to kill
Xwin.exe before I can run the my application again.  

startx instead of startxwin.exe apparently kills Xwin.exe when the 
application
ends but I get a big window the entire screen, I have no cursor unless I 
make
it smaller, and for a cursor I get a big X.